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hi Your situation sounds kind of like what mine would be, if anyone would agree on anything lol. How did you come to the agreement of the physical relationships with your husband? Has it always been open? Did it take time? Why doesn't he want to get to know anyone you are involved in? I'm...

Yes, blue, I agree, communication is the key here. I am so blessed to have a partner that will listen to me and has not decided to simply reject me for it. I love him so much for being open to me. It really shows that he loves me. I hope things go well for you and your others. Lol at...

I agree with getting all the legal stuff taken care of. It's just polite and if problems arise down the road....well you don't have to worry much about it. Like right now with our house....it the euphoria of a relationship that is going well, you can rely a lot on trust and that's ok......but...

Huh, ya that would probably describe me. Thanks!

Thank you so much for the support :) The tension has lessened....it comes and goes it seems still. Sigh.....baby steps. I feel kind of bad that my partner didn't really know my history. He never asked, so I just didn't say anything about it. I told him what he asked for about my past...

am I capable of being involved with others, whilst not losing interest in my primary? can I nurture my partner effectively whilst I am active with others? can I maintain our emotional relationship? can I balance it all? can I face my own insecurities well enough to cope with her being...

Unfamiliar with terminlogy First of all, I am sorry to hear that things are on a roller coaster. :( It will work out for the best I'm sure, whichever way it goes. You can't go through life unhappy. I am afraid this would be the way it would be if me and my others (boyfriend and wanted...

I love your response to this Ciel. That's how I would feel. Upon discussing pros and cons of a poly relationship with my hubby, he made it clear that he couldn't raise "another man's child" :( This kind of saddens me tho our poly journey is still very much in it's infancy......no pun intended...

First and foremost, I want my loved ones to be happy. I want to be happy. I am not interested at this point in having sex with random people. I have done that before and it does not make me feel good inside. I prefer strong emotional bonds and friendships with people. I want open and honest...

Hi, I came out to my hubby (I say hubby because we are not married but we do live together and have been together for 5 yrs and have children together) in March. He was on a roller coaster as well. He still holds pretty strong that he is mono which is fine by me. I know how you feel. I never...

My hubby also feels very very insecure about all this. Since all this came out and i told him that I wasn't going to live unhappy anymore. He has made a change for the very best, but I still love my friend and want a relationship with him. I have agreed to stay with my hubby so we don't break up...

Sounds like you two need to discuss some ground rules. I'm new to this as well and I've heard that helps a lot. You are being poly as well being the other guy outside of her fam. Does her husband know about you? Have you ever met him? This may seem a bit personal but I am just curious because I...

Yes, I really wish my friend would agree to having a conversation about it with everyone. They know each other, we've all hung out before, just not since I came out that I had such feelings for him this past March. Time will tell I suppose. Thanks. :)

Hi everyone. I am sort of new to this. Well, actually, I kind of just stop beating myself up for how I think I really am. I have had issues with being faithful to people in the past. Sometimes, there were underlying issues, not enough attention at home, incompatibility, was in love with someone...