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Thank you for the links, I will certainly go through those at length as I try and figure out how to bring this up in the least destructive way possible.

Yes thats actually a perfect summary of my issue. This makes a lot of sense to me actually. And makes me go back to the idea that in this case some discretion is probably worthwhile. Or at least holding off a bit until the topic resurfaces on its own where I can use the ideas of multiple...

My situation here is almost more of a philosophical one. Is the truth really the best option if the person would be happier living in the dark. For people like me and likely most people on this board, the answer is a resounding no. But there are people out there who may be happier being in the...

So to change the question a bit then, any suggestions on how to begin such a conversation, to help him understand how this is an ok situation and that I don't want to leave him and I still want him to be my husband? How to soften the blow I suppose is what I'm asking. He's not very aware of the...

Yes all comments are super helpful. I'm not doing the standard forum, ask for one hard and straight answer and then ignore it completely. A collection of thoughts from those more experienced than I for me to mull over and fit into my personal situation is all I'm really looking for. And calling...

Eh slightly more complicated than that. I actually don't want to air any of this to him. Its more an issue of, do I owe it to him to let him decide if he's ok with me being in what is very quickly becoming an actual relationship with someone else. He confronts me about the friendships and asks...

Hi all, This is my first time posting and I'm looking for a little advice on what to do about a poly situation I've accidentally found myself in. My husband an I have been together 9 years, married 7 and are 26. A year or so ago we started discussing the idea of sleeping with other people...