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Cleo, I applaud you!! Thank you so much for putting very clearly and in detail into writing how I feel about this whole issue. THANK YOU

yes yes of course she knows everything, and has so from the beginning

most of the occasions we had sex, but no overnight stays. Just meetings for a few hours. Seriously, it would feel really silly for us to just sit around and talk if there is a spark and sexual interest. This reminds me a bit of how do you define sex. Is it when there is actual penetration, or...

The date with the girlfriend was brief and a bit awkward, but nice. Good potential. Wehad our meeting on neutral ground (i.e not in any of our homes, which I think is a must for a first time meeting). My situation is that I am very new to poly and I think a lot of flexibility was important in...

Thanks a lot for all of your valuable input. It is greatly appreciated and interesting for a newbie like me :) Now I am off to meet with 'the significant other' :)

OK I admit my last remark was a bit provocative...I understand this is a sensitive issue. I just feel that if the health issue is resolved, and Noone is looking to steal anyone away, does it really matter if you meet before or after sex? That was my question.....

Well I have been tested for a variety of diseases, and I am totally clean. And I also don't think giving this information in person is necessary. Forwarding the email from the doctor would suffice here I would say. I would really like to understand in depth why the need to meet before sex is so...

I think it is important to take into account the feelings of all parties involved and also to be flexible. Seriously, if you get to the point where you all want to meet then there are definitely sexual feelings involved already. So why this stubbornness in terms of meeting before the actual...

Ok I think it is important that the primary couple has rules, and that should be respected. However, I can't help but wonder why exactly it is so important that everyone meets before anything sexual happens. If you trust your partner why not let him or her have sex and get to know this new...

Thanks for all your replies :) I thinks it is the right thing for me to meet the girlfriend, no question about about. I totally understand that she would want to meet me in order to remove the stuff going on in her imagination. I also understand that she needs to make sure that I don't want to...

I just started seeing this guy who is in a polyamorous relationship. I should also say that I have n o intention of wanting something more serious from him. At our second date he said it was very important to him that i meet his girlfriend. I told him that I would like a little time to figure...