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So another update is due. It amazes me as I look back over these messages, just how many changes keep happening... it's like watching evolution in progress! So, F and I are still working hard at our relationship. After a few days away together (how we love those times) and after some heavy...

I'm not sure I agree. From a human mirror perspective (which I do agree with) it's more likely that she is looking at her own relationship and attempting to determine if she is really as similar to OP as she first thought. That can be quite a frightening thing for people who only understand...

Thanks for sharing Tom. it is comforting though that they both came around in the end.. sometimes children just need time to adjust, especially if 'everything' is new to them...

Two weeks in, and the picture is starting to get a little clearer. Seems F was NEVER happy with an 'exclusive' relationship with anyone else, but she was 'trying' to be for my sake. We've argued nearly every day since about why she couldn't just have been honest and spared everyone the...

I thought a quick update would be helpful. We didn't have a veto rule, but F became increasingly uncomfortable [her words hurt] that I was actually enjoying the relationship with E and that F wasn't an active part of it. I think this suprised her as much as it suprised me, and so, as he often...

it seems it is on the table.. woop woop

I should also say, that I live in one county with my wife (F) and I work away a couple of days a week and that is where I see E. in that respect it's quite separate (and could stay so) though I'm very happy to see them meet and get to know each other. If F gets to know someone, it's more likely...

So I guess I thought it was time I started my own thread now (after lurking around and reading as much as I can) I've been with my primary partner for nearly 20 years, we get on well but I've had a number of affairs. We've attempted to mitigate my apparent need for other people by swinging...

Exactly. I couldn't agree more, and I think we might try harder with this, if there's (or maybe when there's) a next time. :) Thanks for your comment..

Hello I am just bursting, I have to tell someone, so I'm going to tell you :) I have been in a mono relationship for years, but have had a series of affairs and 'others' as we call them, to supplement my need for higher emotional connection and additional sexual connection. My exploration of...