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    Funny how things change in a blink...

    RainyGrlJenny,that was exactly what I thought when I found out about this. Followed by, "how many times did he do this? Did he make videos of K and I as well?"
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    Funny how things change in a blink...

    One day I'm thoroughly in love with N, my secondary. And then in the blink of an eye, this person changed, morphed into something awful. My husband and his secondary K were trying to find a video that N had downloaded (N was at work) and in the process of trying to find it they came across two...
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    Lots of catching up to do

    So it's been almost a year since I posted last and so much has happened that I thought I'd take the time to share some of it. N and I's relationship remained pretty much as FWB until November when slowly but surely, he started to open up. It was incredibly difficult to ride it out and wait...
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    New to poly and need advice

    An Update Hi everyone, I just wanted to say thanks to those who responded with advice regarding my situation and I just thought I'd give a little update. So my husband D, and his gf K are doing very well and it's lovely to see. She has a wonderful calming effect on him and since he has...
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    The cat's out of the bag now!

    So my husband, Dion, and I have now been poly for roughly a year. We are open and honest with our mutual friends, as many of them are either poly or open/swingers themselves. They have been wonderful and helped us navigate what has been a really rough year emotionally (transitioning from open to...
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    For those of you who are not out do you have specific places you go with one person

    I wish we could do that but sadly, my FWB is still uncomfortable and awkward when we all go out together (his primary gf is my husband's gf). Sigh.
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    For those of you who are not out do you have specific places you go with one person

    My husband and I frequent this teriyaki place and the woman who owns it always chats us up. Well you should have seen the LOOK she gave me when I went in with my fwb (we weren't even holding hands)! I jokingly told him "I think we've been caught!" Well turns out I was right; she told my husband...
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    New to poly and need advice

    Thanks for all the advice, I always find it helpful to get outside opinions when my objectivity goes out the window (like when in the throes of NRE :)). My husband and I have talked quite a bit about the situation and he has asked that I be patient with N, even though we both agree that N...
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    Personal Summaries

    Hi my name is Emma. I've been married for almost three years (anniversary is coming up super soon! :)) and have been open/swinger for the last year and poly for the last 5 months or so. I love to read, jog, watch stupid comedies, sew terribly but love it, crochet occasionally, craft, and be a...
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    New to poly and need advice

    Hi all, I apologize if this becomes a long winded disjointed post but the brain fog has hit rather fierce lately. Ok, my husband and I have been together for going on three years and have been open/swinging for the last year or so. This was a mutually agreed decision and worked out well for...
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