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How does one even even bring up the topic of fluid bonding to ones' partner? I would love to bond on that level with the long distance partner, but I'm not really sure how to ask him about it. I would love to be that close to him. Babies aren't an issue for me as I'm using the pill with my main...

You're totally right I don't need to go at him like I'm begging, I'm sure that wouldn't do any good! I'm going to take a step back and think about what I want, and what's the best way for me to describe that to him. Then once I've said what I've need to, I'll see where the conversation goes...

Thanks guys! I guess I don't really need any label for the relationship I have with him, at least I have a relationship with him. Maybe when talking I could use the words secondary, or tertiary if the need arose? But not directly to describe what we have between us. It will be scary but I...

That totally makes sense. Thanks guys :) This forum is so helpful! I'm not a big fan of the term myself but I was just wondering what it meant to more experienced poly people.

I know the order of the terms, but besides that I don't know much other besides that. How much time is spent with these partners? What makes them different than a secondary partner?

I was looking for information on the internet and I can't find much. I can find a lot of information on secondary's but hardly anything on tertiary partners. I know they are similar to secondary's but different in there own way. What can people tell me about tertiary partners/relationships? :)

When in a poly relationship does it become okay to discuss labels? Or are the nature of labels not important at all? You have to excuse me I'm new to all this, just being introduced to polyamory by this new friend of mine. My poly 'friend' and I have been long distance, communicating with each...

Hi everyone! I'm new to poly having been introduced to it through a new 'friend'. I've considered myself mono up until now. But now that my friend has opened my eyes to this new world I'm still trying to figure everything out, but I'm happy to be here. :D