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  1. J

    New/Nervous/Confused

    Mandi, I to am relatively new. I would suggest that you and your hubby sit down and really talk about what each of you wants from your polyamorous relationship. Develop a list of expectations each of you has of the other when meeting with someone...i.e. obviously safe sex, no sex with a new...
  2. J

    Have/had issues, needed advice...

    I just wanted to thank everyone who responded to my post...I received awesome input and have been able to put together a constructive plan on how to strengthen my triad. We've been discussing all the input received and with time and effort we know we will become a highly functioning family. I...
  3. J

    Got issues, need answers/advice......

    We've been together as a triad for going on a year. He and I have known each other 20yrs and she and I have known each other for a little over a year. They are or were swingers, however since we've become a triad, they have both said that what they were looking for or missing is found, niether...
  4. J

    Got issues, need answers/advice......

    Money...he doesn't work but he is real good at spending. I work anywhere from 8 to 15 hrs a day and sometimes I work 12 days straight to make sure things are covered and there's extra. I do see him making some effort to get a job and I've said all along that as long as he can cover 1 very...
  5. J

    Newbie....

    I'm a total newbie to the world of polyamorous relationships.... I'm deeply invovlved and committed to my triad relationship. I'm the secondary female. Sometimes I feel like the referee! I've known my man for about 20yrs and his wife/my girlfriend for about a yr. They are or were swingers...
  6. J

    Got issues, need answers/advice......

    I'm part of a poly relationship, consisting of a husband & wife & myself... We are having some difficulties in defining parameters such as household money, personal money, introductions and time management. Under time management issues I would add personal time, the time spent alone with ones...
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