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  1. Tise

    Hesitant to open up....

    Thank you so much for sharing this story. Out of all the replies, I think this one is the closest to my own situation. In the last few days since posting this, we have talked and talked and talked. I have also shared with him the contents of this thread. What we have found so far is this...
  2. Tise

    Hesitant to open up....

    Wewerenthunting, We've been married for a year and together around three. The children are physically mine, but don't say that to him, he insists they are ours.
  3. Tise

    Hesitant to open up....

    Bunnielight, It *does* hurt, but he's not intentionally causing me pain and I know that he loves me as much as I love him. I think a big thing is we have gone through a whole $&'+ in the year we've been married then we ever have before. We've had cancer, (mine) surgeries, (his) and a...
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    Hesitant to open up....

    Marcus, He does have some health problems that make sex more difficult for him, ie diabetes and neuropathy. I do not at this time believe that the marriage is at stake or ever will be because of sexual intimacy. We maintain a lot of activities together and are raising children as well...
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    Hesitant to open up....

    Hi Kevin, Thank you for your reply. My husband is very against therapy. I however am totally okay with therapy, but feel like it isn't going to help if it's only me working on it. We've had many deep discussions about this and he wants to open. He believes that my sex drive is too high...
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    Hesitant to open up....

    Hello all, I have been an avid reader on here for a while but haven't found anything that is like my situation enough to feel like I could have my concerns fully met. My husband and I are both poly, we were poly before we met but became Mono during our courtship and subsequent marriage...
  7. Tise

    Is thin the only sexy?

    Ah, well then :)
  8. Tise

    Is thin the only sexy?

    For me, attraction is about the interior vs the exterior. I worry about people who focus on the exterior. And except for that aspect I fully agree with you Avatar
  9. Tise

    Describe your sex life with a movie title

    Animal House, Moulin Rouge, Practical Magic. Oh wait, sex life? Titanic :(
  10. Tise

    Witchcraft

    That's a kind of magic..... I'm sorry, to me, magic I is magic and Magick or Magik is just trying to be fancy. I believe in magic, and witchcraft. I live magic every day. To me, it is the acknowledging of the energy, chi, soul of all of us, all around us and within and around the earth. I...
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    Is thin the only sexy?

    Technically, I am all sorts of obese. I weight 300 pounds. I'm 5'9. Am I sexy? Oh hell yes. Do I take care of myself? Yes. Am I worried about losing weight? Nope. If someone is going to love me, they will love me as I am. Do I theoretically want to lose weight? One day. For my own reasons...
  12. Tise

    Confused but happy

    Thank you so much! Already I feel like this was a great choice for my life.
  13. Tise

    Confused but happy

    Yes! So much community and support, it's amazing!
  14. Tise

    Is a diagnosable mental illness a red flag for you?

    That, in a nutshell, it's why my answer is "runaway FAST!" I had a partner that was bi-polar, with schizophrenic added, it was rough. I tried hard, he didn't. I *can* be open to other mental health problems, but if I heard the words bi-polar, I'm checking out.
  15. Tise

    "Your dance card is full"

    To play devils advocate, as a Female, I never read a Mans profile. I'd much rather learn about you and your lovestyle from you, not your profile. Maybe he's like me in that aspect...
  16. Tise

    A wise person wrote and a wise person posted this

    Thank you so much for sharing that. :)
  17. Tise

    Confused but happy

    Thank you both so much. I want to clarify though, if I may, I'm not here to define my relationship with X, he is my catalyst in many ways, but what we have works. He's here sometimes, mostly not. But the thought that I can love more than one person at a time, is so freeing! I'm here to try...
  18. Tise

    Personal Summaries

    Just Tise Hello :) I'm Tise, 29, single(ish) mother of two little girls. I am defiantly Pan-sexual. I don't know how to describe my current relationship status. I have lovers who come and go as they please I suppose. "X" introduced me to the Poly lifestyle, and I'm trying to figure out where I...
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  20. Tise

    Confused but happy

    Hello, New to forum :) On the subject of Poly, I'm beginning to think that I'm not so new to it as I originally thought, only now I have a name for it. I met "X" (name withheld to protect the guilty ;) In February of this year, and I enjoyed being with him. When I asked him "Why is such an...
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