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Thanks for the suggestions Kevin. I believe I tried OK cupid once; there was little in my area though.

Ideally, I'd say single (divorced, widowed, etc...) But you have to be very careful of even those who claim to be "single", "separated" or "divorced". Here is what recently happened to me: I came across someone 8 months ago who normally I probably wouldn't have been initially attracted to...

I've cared for my friends-with-benefits/lovers....did I love them? No, because most never allowed me to get to really know them, to hang out with them and do other things. A few I would talk with, watch movies with, have drinks..I considered them btw the lover and BF, which was ok. Either...

It's scary out there. Depending on who you are looking for (man or woman), you will run in to all sorts of 'interesting' individuals. I spent most of my time on aff. In my opinion, it's not the best place to seek a poly relationship since most mistake it with "having multiple sex partners"...

As for me, it's been 5+ years for us. We started off monogamous, briefly tried the swinging bit (which was way to impersonal for us; we were tired of feeling 'used' and being seen as "fresh meat") and looked in to forming more fulfilling relationships with people.

Same here. I did not like swinging at all, in the traditional sense. It was all too impersonal to me, and although I was very comfortable with an ongoing friendship, it was very hard to find a partner who was equally comfortable with 'dating' me but who also realized that we were not going to...

I wonder how many confuse polyamory with just being plain old sexually promiscuous and using "well I'm polyamorous" as an excuse? I've certainly encountered a few men who said they were poly and I told them clearly they were not, because it's more of a relationship than just having a booty-call...

I call myself "thirdalternative", because rather than cheat or get a divorce, we decided to have an open, polyamourous relationship. I've been married 16 years to a wonderful man. We have 3 children. Five years ago, he came out. We worked through the rough patches and stayed together...