Search results

@Nycindie: That was *extremely* offensive. I feel I rather clearly stated that I am unsure how I feel about dating two people, and he is in a similar place. To have you state that it's either "bullshit" or "tyranny" is rude and hurtful. Please don't make sure sweeping statements until asking...

I am a *total* cuddle-slut. It's actually rather difficult for me to have friends who aren't the "kinesthetic, touchy-feely" type, because I *love* being in constant touch with my friends. Granted, those are people who know me better than anyone, but.... Yeah, SUPER cuddly type here :)

@Nycindie, that's what I've been thinking about doing, though as of last week, might not be so easy. I spent one night with my girl during a period when D has his kids, and got rather clingy and pouty with me, and after some discussion it's sounding like he's open to me sleeping with women, but...

Explain that you're nervous, and maybe talk it through with him, and express that you might be interested in trying, but you don't know how. He will likely know if she has expressed interest in playing with you, so you can go from there. Or tell her that you're nervous but curious and just...

I've already been asking for help in the "general" section, but I figured I should give a right proper introduction as well! I'm a 25 year old bi woman, figuring out life as it happens. Just finished massage school and waiting on my test results, so holding the thought for a massage related...

I'm very okay with rearranging as needed, but H and I have hit the point of serious where I don't feel okay going two weeks only seeing her once or twice, when it kind of fits in with my schedule with D. They're meeting Sunday, so I'm going to wait until they've met and know how they feel...

Agreed, turtleHeart! I love people watching, and if I'm out with my primary-type I point out especially attractive women to him, but haven't gotten that comfortable with my girlfriend yet. But I'm also very good at giving undivided attention when needed. When a serious conversation is happening...

So... I'm the "hinge" in a V, but I would *absolutely* tell either of my partners if (when) I have had trouble. It only seems fair to say "hey, this happened, I had a blah week" or "I need an evening alone to just deal with the turmoil that x caused". And seriously, not telling K is doing her...

Good luck?

Oh, wow, that takes SO MUCH SCHEDULING! I'm impressed you make it work! :) I'm starting to think that I need to work something out with D first, simply because he's the less flexible of the two, and then work in H time around that. And make sure there's the understanding that weeks when D has...

I do not live with either partner. I have been dating D for (roughly) 6 months, and H for roughly 1 month. **edit** I don't live with anyone, no housemates, no kids, just me ;)

I'm not sure how to balance my two relationships time-wise. See, I have my primary (D) who had kids, two weeks at a time, so I barely get to see him during that time. But I've adjusted to making up for that during the two weeks he doesn't have them, which has been perfect for me and how my...

Thank you all so very much! Getting to hear such reassuring and similar stories definitely has helped ease my mind and not rush into things quite as quickly! Still testing the water, so to speak, but nowhere close to being an anxious and panicky!

So, I've been dating my wonderful boyfriend for about 5-6 months. He knew, going into this, that I wanted to fully explore my bi side, and has been totally accepting and comfortable with it. I started casually dating a woman about 2 weeks ago, and she's a darling. I'm rather fond of her...