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  1. jasaty

    Sex with your SO after they come home?

    I personally don't like having sex with my husband on the same day as he has with his s/o. And I also want him to shower first. It's nothing against her or him, I just don't feel comfortable with it.
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    Married and Poly?

    Been married almost a year and currently gf to karsh.
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    need some advice, newer relationship

    Thanks for your input, both of you. I truly appreciate all the help. GG, you have some amazing advice. I'm going to go over all of it again when I get a few moments alone to really come up with a plan. Yes. Thank you for seeing it that way. How do you let go of guilt? Specially when you...
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    need some advice, newer relationship

    Thank you. I want to talk as a group, but I have a terrible time with it. It's hard for me. I don't like letting others down or them getting angry/upset with me. I know it's a part of life but I tend to beat myself up over things. I know I have to learn to not let others dictate how I feel and...
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    Time Management

    GalaGirl, That sounds like an awesome way to manage everything.
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    Time Management

    I agree, talk to them and if you can schedule days with each so that they know when they can see you and not make plans for other things. I personally need a schedule. I live for schedules. Whether it's for our daughter or my own personal one. I'm not the type of person who likes things sprung...
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    Hello!!

    I am sure the sun there is better. I can only assume that the weather is better overall. I am about 1.5 hours north of Detroit and lived in Southfield for about a year while going to school.
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    Hello!!

    Thank you for the welcome! I assumed it would be quad, I just wanted to make sure there wasn't some other term out there that I didn't know of. :) Where at in Michigan did you live? Did you enjoy it here? -Sarah
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    need some advice, newer relationship

    I guess I could have pointed that out, thanks.
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    need some advice, newer relationship

    I hope someone has some input.
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    Academic Shout Out

    I read The Ethical Slut, but I didn't find it all that helpful. I'm looking for a new book that is geared more toward living life as a quad and all that it entails. I do love me a good book.
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    My current situation

    I'm looking forward to the advice everyone has. Though, this might get more answers if it was posted in the poly relationships corner.
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    Hobbies

    I enjoy reading and scrapbooking. Though I barely have time to breathe these days so I haven't gotten to do much of either.
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    I need some help

    Talking about everything is essential. I am learning this as well. I just wish my husband would open up a little more with the talking. But, we are working on it. Enjoy your new relationships.
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    New

    I agree, if you two aren't happy together then bringing someone else in will not help at all. I think you should take a step back and really look at your relationship and decide if you even want to be together.
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    Nervous

    I'm glad you've been able to talk and work things out. I can only imagine how hard it has been. I know I haven't been here long at all, but I know this forum has been very helpful and supportive.
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    Poly parenting

    We have talked a little bit, but not a whole lot. I know we need to talk more. They have been around since before our daughter was born and have been in her life the whole time. They know how we parent and haven't had any disagreements really. I know it will probably be a whole different...
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    Poly parenting

    My husband and I have a child together who is 2 years old. Our daughter refers to our bf/gf as aunt and uncle. They were our good friends before we decided to have a poly relationship, so the aunt and uncle just stuck. They will occasionally watch her and help keep her out of trouble. But, as...
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    This is actually a new name for this forum. I wanted to start fresh and not be "googleable". It is a combination of my husband's, mine and my boyfriend's names. The first two letters of each. :-) my other name I have used since I was about 11. It's time for a change.
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    New. So there!

    Hello! I get the whole awkward thing. It happens. :)
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