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    My secondary is starting a primary relationship...

    update well, I did my best and gave loop all the space she wanted. her job deadline came and went. she kept putting off the date. then finally she set it and changed her mind the morning of the date - I showed up expecting a reunion and she said "we need to talk". stine had hard feelings...
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    My secondary is starting a primary relationship...

    hey now, I was all warm loves and understanding and wanting her to have exactly what she wants when she first approached me about this. yes, you need to get your work done, if we see each other as we did before you started dating stine one month ago, stine will get upset, and it will freak you...
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    My secondary is starting a primary relationship...

    how do I get over the expense to me part? does this seem really unfair to you? I am looking for a reality check. I feel like I'm being treated really unfairly...
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    My secondary is starting a primary relationship...

    yes, I think that would feel a lot better.
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    My secondary is starting a primary relationship...

    I wanted to clarify those timelines... I rounded up in one and down in the other. grid and I have been together 5.5yrs, loop and I about 2.5yrs.
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    My secondary is starting a primary relationship...

    I have been with my girlfriend 'grid' for 6 years. we live together, are trying to have a baby together, and are committed to being life partners. I have been seeing my girlfriend 'loop' for 2 years, some of which was spent normalizing polyamory/monogamish/whatever we are into our lives (i.e...
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    Finding a primary when you already have a non-primary

    Cadyern, be sure what is available to you from your relationship before assuming you have to find the "more traditional ideas of marriage and children" with another person. There may be room for you to be a co-primary or to create a larger family.
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