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    Fun sex / Safe sex

    Hello hello, I'm a big fan of safe(r) sex. But there is no thing as safe sex in an absolute sense and this kind of freaks me out. Because if you educate yourself, go online, or read a book about it, it's all "shock and awe". I guess that's so they can scare you into using condoms? Anyway...
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    At an impasse. Go on alone or go back to mono?

    I wrote a very long post yesterday as a reply to all of yours. But it disappeared. Bummer, it was quite extensive with all the necessary quotes and such. I'll write a very quick summary here: I don't want to do anything in secret. One of the things that really click for me is the honesty act. I...
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    At an impasse. Go on alone or go back to mono?

    True, the first post had a fair bit of frustration in it. But, being in a poly relationship often makes issues you might have come to the surface more often/faster. Issues that might not have come up in a mono relationship, or that would have come up in a milder form. Poly really brings those...
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    At an impasse. Go on alone or go back to mono?

    Hey hey, I need your help. I'm poly. I understand it, feel it, and don't have (any) problems with it. My partner understands it, intellectually, but doesn't feel it. She experiences the opposite. She is fine as long as nothing happens and when a new girl comes around shit hits the fan, hard...
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    Hello Hello

    Hi, New here. Have been lurking though. I'm poly, it all makes so much sense. The first time I talked about it it all just clicked. "AHHA!" I'm in a poly relationship. But sadly it's either ending very soon or is going back to mono because of my partner not being able to handle it. But...
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