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    My husband can't sleep when my boyfriend sleeps over

    Hi lilyankh. I guess your husband and I are almost complete opposites but I can definitely pitch some insight into your situation. It seems we both have a curiosity for our wives having sex with their boyfriends. The only difference is that I have a somewhat jealous/competitive drive for my...
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    Libido changes?

    I'll speak on my wife's behalf and say that her libido increase had to do with 2 main things: 1. her age (shes 44 now) 2. and her bf. I'll preface by adding that she was never a sex nympho back when we were still monogamous. We would have sex about 2-3 times a week. She was very content and even...
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    Sexless marriage, told him I was stepping out for sex

    Hi, SS. I'm happy to hear that your husband has decided to cooperate out of what I know is his love for you. It's understandable that he was reluctant to go with that option at first, because it's always a hard decision for a husband to allow another man to have his wife in the sack. That is...
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    Hi there :)

    That sounds really special. Rebecca and Dan definitely started out as just friends even though he openly flirted with her from time to time and even propositioned a get together once a little after his divorce. My wife expectedly declined and said she was a happily married woman but definitely...
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    Sexless marriage, told him I was stepping out for sex

    Your husband and I have some similarities, in that we were both restricted from having sex to a certain degree in some way. However, the main difference is that I decided to make an effort and get help (which worked), and your husband isn't making an effort. This is my opinion on what you should...
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    Hi there :)

    Hi Kevin! Happy New Year to you too! No question is too personal so please feel free to ask anything. As far as the sex goes, it's a lot better than it was a year and a half ago in general. The quality of sex has greatly improved despite the quantity decreasing. But, I was never a sex nympho or...
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    Hi there :)

    Hi Jane! Happy New Year! So great to hear about your story as well. Would love to share stories and experiences being that we have a very similar, maybe even same, dynamic going on. Feel free to ask me ANYTHING through this board or PM regarding anything you would like and that goes for anyone...
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    The story so far

    Speaking from personal experience, there was a mixed response from our kids. My son (18) and daughter (15) took the news much differently than one another. Our daughter immediately hugged me and told me I was a great dad and husband for loving her mother enough to accept her boyfriend in her...
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    Hi there :)

    Hi there. I definitely feel welcomed already. I guess I can give an intro to our situation and continue my life-story thread in the blog section I guess? My wife (Rebecca) and I have been married for 19 years. I'm 46 and shes 44 but we both look younger than our ages due to staying in shape and...
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    Hi there :)

    Hi guys. I'm new to this forum but not to polyamory. I had a medical issue 2 years ago that prompted my wife and I to take on a lover for her with my acceptance and best wishes. I'd love to share my story if anyone is interested or has any questions :) Looking forward to contributing to this...
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