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    Is this an abusive relationship?

    I'm also new to polyamory, but my understanding is that honesty/consent/respect for each other's boundaries are central to making a polyamorous relationship work. By your account, he was not honest with you about seeing other people. A lie of omission is still a lie! While you did consent to a...
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    looking for a fresh perspective

    I would react the same way if I were you. You and your partner set boundaries and he did not respect that. He probably didn't do it intentionally, but he wasn't mindful of his actions, and his relationship/feelings went further than you were comfortable with. However, the fact that he let this...
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    ARRRRGGGGG (venting)

    Hello all. I'm new to poly relationships. The first person I was with (since my husband Ted and I decided to act on how we've been feeling) is leaving me all kinds of loopy in the heart/brain. Martin is someone I've been attracted to for a few months. My (apparently obvious) attraction to him...
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    Struggling with a breakup

    Actually, I'm going through something similar. It wasn't a long relationship, but I still miss what we had, and I feel that I'm missing out on the memories we could have made. His reasons were vague when he decided to end things, but I think it has to do with what he wants out of a relationship...
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    New and wanting to do this the best way possible.

    Hello all. I'm new to polyamory, but have been leaning towards it for a few years now. My husband and I have discussed trying polyamory off and on prior to our marriage. I had reservations because I have problems with real/perceived abandonment. I know that I will need lots of reassurance...
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