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If I'm reading you right, you're saying that everyone will cheat at some point so we should all be poly because there's no such thing as cheating if you're poly? I disagree wholeheartedly. There might be the desire to be intimate with someone else, but if you respect your partner (as Allstar...

That's exactly how I feel, Neon. I've been doing all the "research" as it were, joining this forum, looking for a community, some people for advice, trying to get everyone on a level before it all started, but they're both full of NRE and wanting to be more spontaneous, and if I'm honest, I'm...

Ms.V and myself are planning out some children's fiction books with polyamorous families in the background, along with other "issues" for want of a better term. I think it's definitely somthing that should be put out there more in a realistic way. x.S.x

Peabean, we set out to be a triad, and although myself and Ms.V have a few confidence issues, we're working at that, and we do love each other. I do obviously realise that we're all individuals and so we have different relationships, but it seems to me that sometimes there's a reluctance to...

I really hope there isn't another thread like this, but I can't think what it'd be tagged as and I couldn't see anything that's asking what I am. So. My question is, how separately do you regard your relationships? How does one relationshp affect the another? Because I feel (especially as part...

I don't think that's a fair statement. It's one thing saying to your partner, "Yes, I'm happy for you to be in love with another person," but it's another thing completely for that partner to ignore your feelings because of their own. It is the responsibility of anyone in a polyamorous...

This. BlackUnicorn, that was a beautifully true post. Personally, the biggest surprise for me was that MsV was interested in me hah. I mean, there was chemistry between her and MrV for a long time, although none of us ever thought it was that kind of chemistry... That and finding that I'd...

Thank's very much haha! I think my whole philosophy on life has changed massively in the past year or so, and..I struggle to define it well haha! I think the best thing I could say is that I'm an anarchist, but too many people interpret that as "I want to cause chaos and trouble". That's not me...

To me, a "soul mate" is just what you described; someone who teaches you soul to progress, be that through love or pain or whatever. I don't believe in predestination, so not someone that you are "meant" to meet, but I do believein reincarnation, so someone who influences you to change either...

I suppose I should say a few words about myself... I'm vegan, animals and their rights are quite a major part of my life, and I try to be as ethical and earth friendly as I possibly can in everything that I do. I'm also pagan, which should go and in hand with the above... I still don't...