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  1. crushed

    Happy Tuesday

    Happy Tuesday
  2. crushed

    Well... Here I am!

    I am happy to read this, as our stories are similar. I have hopes that my hubby and bf could become wonderful friends and share celebrations together. Fingers crossed it Errol eventually turn that way.
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    Poly married to swinger dating mono

    Im wondering if anyone has come across this situation. My husband, for all definion purposes, is a swinger (or wanna be), I consider myself poly, and my bf identifies as mono. My husband struggles sometimes that I love my boyfriend. He is open to our relationship, and had a relationship...
  4. crushed

    Because you're poly

    I have no advice unfortunately. It seems that women tend to react in astonishment that I am OK with sharing my husband with another woman, and he in sharing me. I get a lot of "I could NEVER do that"... and my reply is "OK"... with men I typically get the pervert stare, and wanting to discuss...
  5. crushed

    New to Polyamory.com

    my husband and I are also in the twin cities. It's definitely been a little hard to find community here. Hope to talk more :) Maggie
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    I'm delusional!

    well update to our situation... I've been going through counseling and am learning quite a bit about myself. I have serious control issues and am working through them. My issue stemmed from feeling left out of my BFs new relationship, and that hurt - that he lied and that he didn't trust me or...
  7. crushed

    interesting question about polyandry, primarily for females

    in my V... neither my Husband or boyfriend identify as bi or gay - just the opposite. I have many friends that identify as gay, bi, trans - but do not find myself attracted to gay, bi or trans men. I prefer to be with straight men, as wrong as that may sound to others. My fellas were friends...
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    I'm delusional!

    My issue is primarily that he lied to me. When I asked him numerous times - he lied. He said he was going with the "don't ask, don't tell" approach that I had said I preferred. Well, then I asked. My anger is the fact he was having unprotected sex with both her and I. I felt that she had a...
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    I'm delusional!

    I have been with my husband since I was 15 (24 years this March) and my boyfriend for 2 years in March. They were friends back in high school, but no longer consider themselves friends. My bf lives in another state and I see him probably every 10 weeks. My husband was seeing a woman in CA but...
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    What to talk about?

    my husband and I began an open marriage a year ago. we have a marriage counselor that deals with polyamorous relationship dynamics and it has been wonderful. You really need to be open and honest and go in to your discussion with a clear mind and heart - not with hurt, jealousy, insecurity so...
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