ImpossibleGirl
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One day, I met a girl. We were both in grade school and she gave me a hand when I needed help. We met for a second time not too long after that, for the world's smallest chat about nothing, still quite young. The third time we met was like two magnets coming together in a high school locker room, and it stuck. From then on we were the best of friends. This girl is Bad Wolf.
Years later, just barely into adulthood, I find myself in an online relationship and Bad Wolf meets a boy at her job. We haven't yet discovered polyamory, nor has anything really developed between us; we have unexplored mutual feelings and the closest of friendships. Bad Wolf falls for this boy, and he for her. He is the Doctor.
This is the start of a lot of tension between myself and Bad Wolf. She doesn't like my long-distance boyfriend, and I don't like the Doctor very much. We both try, for the other, but it's not good enough. Bad Wolf and I argue often and over everything for the majority of a year. When my long-distance boy moves into my state and into my house, the fighting eases only a little between us. My friendship with the Doctor becomes more genuine, but neither he nor Bad Wolf care much for my boyfriend. They try, for me.
Bad Wolf and the Doctor move in together, my boyfriend and I lose my house. We go to stay with them, and the idea of polyamory is introduced to us much like a Mack truck is introduced to a Volkswagen bug. We get too excited, there's too much new relationship energy and not enough honesty about feelings, and things falls apart. My boyfriend and I decide to get married and move back to his home state, though I am still in a relationship with Bad Wolf and the Doctor and my boyfriend is not.
This decision is terrible for me. I miss Bad Wolf and the Doctor, and loneliness eats at me for the entire year I am gone. My marriage is not a good one for many reasons, and in the end we get a divorce. I thought I was in love and I'm as devastated to return to California alone as I am happy simply to return home, to the two I need now more than ever. I return sick with pneumonia and Bell's Palsy, burdened by depression. Between Bad Wolf and the Doctor, my spirits are nursed back to health and joy. Nothing has changed between us, it's only gotten better. 2012 is like a blank slate for the three of us, and we make absolutely the best of it.
Bad Wolf and the Doctor got married in a religious ceremony back in 2008. The three of us (and my younger brother) move into a house together in 2013, and a year later Bad Wolf and I are married in our own ceremony. My relationship with the Doctor has become amazing, and I'm swimming in pools of sappy love with the pair of them.
Now in 2015, the three of us have had our first child (an adorably perfect daughter, W!) together only days ago from Bad Wolf and the Doctor. We anxiously await the birth of our second (hopefully this week, when I am due on Friday!), also courtesy of the Doctor. What can we say, he is like ice and fire and rage. He's like the night and the storm in the heart of the sun. He's ancient and forever. He burns at the center of time and can see the turn of the universe. And he's wonderful. Our life as a triad had a turbulent beginning, but love is a promise we kept together and we've built something amazing with it.
This nerdy love saga continues.
Years later, just barely into adulthood, I find myself in an online relationship and Bad Wolf meets a boy at her job. We haven't yet discovered polyamory, nor has anything really developed between us; we have unexplored mutual feelings and the closest of friendships. Bad Wolf falls for this boy, and he for her. He is the Doctor.
This is the start of a lot of tension between myself and Bad Wolf. She doesn't like my long-distance boyfriend, and I don't like the Doctor very much. We both try, for the other, but it's not good enough. Bad Wolf and I argue often and over everything for the majority of a year. When my long-distance boy moves into my state and into my house, the fighting eases only a little between us. My friendship with the Doctor becomes more genuine, but neither he nor Bad Wolf care much for my boyfriend. They try, for me.
Bad Wolf and the Doctor move in together, my boyfriend and I lose my house. We go to stay with them, and the idea of polyamory is introduced to us much like a Mack truck is introduced to a Volkswagen bug. We get too excited, there's too much new relationship energy and not enough honesty about feelings, and things falls apart. My boyfriend and I decide to get married and move back to his home state, though I am still in a relationship with Bad Wolf and the Doctor and my boyfriend is not.
This decision is terrible for me. I miss Bad Wolf and the Doctor, and loneliness eats at me for the entire year I am gone. My marriage is not a good one for many reasons, and in the end we get a divorce. I thought I was in love and I'm as devastated to return to California alone as I am happy simply to return home, to the two I need now more than ever. I return sick with pneumonia and Bell's Palsy, burdened by depression. Between Bad Wolf and the Doctor, my spirits are nursed back to health and joy. Nothing has changed between us, it's only gotten better. 2012 is like a blank slate for the three of us, and we make absolutely the best of it.
Bad Wolf and the Doctor got married in a religious ceremony back in 2008. The three of us (and my younger brother) move into a house together in 2013, and a year later Bad Wolf and I are married in our own ceremony. My relationship with the Doctor has become amazing, and I'm swimming in pools of sappy love with the pair of them.
Now in 2015, the three of us have had our first child (an adorably perfect daughter, W!) together only days ago from Bad Wolf and the Doctor. We anxiously await the birth of our second (hopefully this week, when I am due on Friday!), also courtesy of the Doctor. What can we say, he is like ice and fire and rage. He's like the night and the storm in the heart of the sun. He's ancient and forever. He burns at the center of time and can see the turn of the universe. And he's wonderful. Our life as a triad had a turbulent beginning, but love is a promise we kept together and we've built something amazing with it.
This nerdy love saga continues.
