Do new relationship affect old ones? or do old one affect new ones?-Couple Privilege

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I think we are simply going around in circles here, OP. The bottom line is that I feel any sort of pandering to the insecurities built up in an existing relationship, pandering in a way that affects the way my relationship runs, is exercising couple privilege. It's simply saying that the problems in your existing relationship are more important than anything we have going on and that's not a precedent I want to set.