xtrememousey
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my poly family and sorting out schedules
so I have a happy little poly family. it's two wives, one husband, and 2 littles (and one coming in December). I will say the biggest challenge is in our sex life. my husband and I have always been spontaneous and wifey 2 is a planner and has a higher libido than I do at the moment. I'm tandem nursing the boys my 4 year old is down to once or twice a week but the baby nurses every 3 hours all day and night so I can't really plan what nights we're going to get fine for some "mommy daddy time". how do others with similar planner/spontaneity issues work that out? does it just work itself out over time?
so I have a happy little poly family. it's two wives, one husband, and 2 littles (and one coming in December). I will say the biggest challenge is in our sex life. my husband and I have always been spontaneous and wifey 2 is a planner and has a higher libido than I do at the moment. I'm tandem nursing the boys my 4 year old is down to once or twice a week but the baby nurses every 3 hours all day and night so I can't really plan what nights we're going to get fine for some "mommy daddy time". how do others with similar planner/spontaneity issues work that out? does it just work itself out over time?
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