SearchingforMyself
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It's been a while since I posted - but things have been going great in my relationship with JP and my metamour J. Who posts when things are going swimmingly? 
About a month ago, I reconnected with M thanks to that wonderful invention called Facebook. M and I have history - we were very involved about 15-16 years ago when I was in college. We did the standard "u-haul" and moved in together quite quickly back then - but poor communication skills, not knowing/understanding both of our poly tendencies, and listening to other people instead of each other did us in.
M and I talked via FB messenger for 10+ hours the first day, 12+ the next, and pretty much everyday since. We've been able to discuss everything from his transition (yes, he was a she during our first relationship), to why we split up in the first place, why he moved to NM, what we each want in relationships, etc.
JP is having a tough time adjusting - since this relationship is his first foray into poly at all. This is my first time as a hinge as well - plus my first LDR. All I can say is thank goodness for Skype!
Long story short - any advice??
About a month ago, I reconnected with M thanks to that wonderful invention called Facebook. M and I have history - we were very involved about 15-16 years ago when I was in college. We did the standard "u-haul" and moved in together quite quickly back then - but poor communication skills, not knowing/understanding both of our poly tendencies, and listening to other people instead of each other did us in.
M and I talked via FB messenger for 10+ hours the first day, 12+ the next, and pretty much everyday since. We've been able to discuss everything from his transition (yes, he was a she during our first relationship), to why we split up in the first place, why he moved to NM, what we each want in relationships, etc.
JP is having a tough time adjusting - since this relationship is his first foray into poly at all. This is my first time as a hinge as well - plus my first LDR. All I can say is thank goodness for Skype!
Long story short - any advice??
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