old hand facing new issues

[Dagferi]

I find most women come with drama. They are catty. This isn't a poly observation but just from life. From PTA to sports mom's to teen girls. Women are cruel to each other. I am a tomboy always have been. (I am also an INTJ so I have a low tolerance for bs.)

My closest friends are men or women like me. Murf's single guy friends told him early on that if he didn't snatch me up then they would.

 

[KC43]

I've always gotten along better with guys than women as well, for the same reasons... If a guy doesn't like you, he'll probably say "I don't like you." If a woman doesn't like you, she might smile to your face and say nice things, and then rant about you to other people behind your back.

I think that's why I liked the dynamic with Hubby and S2... neither of them had another partner. I was it. And it's definitely why I'd been steering clear of poly guys with other partners.

Which has now gone out the window, but anyway...