Seeking Stories

[ajokey]

I am looking for stories of people who learned they want the Poly lifestyle and are now faced with losing a spouse.

Allison

 

[graviton]

Might be quicker for you to just do a search for spouse leaving me or ultimatum. The message boards are filled with such stories.

 

[friskyone4u]

Well, as Graviton said, with no other information, you may need to do the research on your own. However, maybe if we draw some info out, others here can help you if you want it.

Most of the people who post I believe do so because they are interested in a particular situation and want to offer advice based on their experience. They do not want to simply tell a story for you.

I suggest if you want some discussion, re-post, tell what is going on , and i am pretty sure you will then get some response.

It is NOT uncommon for poly or any other form of non monogamy to break up a relationship if it is not done right just like a mono marriage can have the same result.

If you are at that point, my guess is you made some big mistakes.