Advice.."My wife doesn't feel THAT way about me"

I can say with 100% confidence that if I were happy in my job and not just scraping by financially, I would be a boat-load happier. I just don't feel like I am bothered by Sam. I honestly like the guy. I am happy for Sarah. 99% of the time I think about money and my job; maybe 1% may be something about being new to polyamory.

I am calling a career coach.
 
Good call on the career coach. Hating your job causes shitloads of strain, and that could be more the problem than you even imagine.

Also, it seems like things aren't quite clicking in the bedroom for you guys, lately. I have a concrete piece of advice. I am pregnant and somewhere in the second trimester, things stopped working for me suddenly, so I'm totally getting some perspective into the viewpoint of an non-orgasmic woman.

Try these two things immediately:

1) Lube.
2) Take orgasm off the table for both of you. Play in the bedroom for, say, half an hour, or whatever seems reasonable. Don't worry about having orgasms.
 
MichelleZed said:
1) Lube.
2) Take orgasm off the table for both of you. Play in the bedroom for, say, half an hour or whatever seems reasonable. Don't worry about having orgasms.
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This is excellent advice. Kind of like, be intimate by being naked, but not worrying about the orgasm part.
 
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