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Thank you so much! I’ll definitely try to put the focus on myself. Because the truth of the matter is that I really do need time to heal and get to know myself again.

Thank you so much for your response. I think your recommendation is perfect. I could definitely see myself saying all of this and meaning it wholeheartedly. One unfortunate issue is that they actually moved in with me, not vice versa. So that will be a whole process of them having to find...

Thank you very much. I really appreciate your response. This is very good advice and I plan on taking all of this into account.

I can’t thank you enough for your response. Much of what you have said resonates deeply with me. I will take much of this into account while I figure out what I’m going to say to them. Aside from this dynamic not really being great for any of us, I also want to take time to explore my own...

Thank you for your response. I really do appreciate it. You’re right about triads rarely developing equally on all sides. I know (and have always known) which relationship would be more sexual and passionate, and which one would be more emotional. Fulfilling different needs in one another is...

I appreciate your feedback, but I simply don’t agree with you. I am not coercing them to remain in their relationship. I simply stated that, for me and my own needs, I could either be with them both or not be with either of them. I feel like that’s my boundary, take it or leave it.

I’ve been in a triad with a married couple for a little over a year. Partner A (we’ll call her Emily) and partner B (we’ll call him Chris) feel that their individual relationships with me are great and are not suffering in any way. (I agree.) However, they have both brought some serious baggage...

To be clear, they aren’t blaming me for their breakup. And I’m not trying to make it about me. Sorry if it came across that way. I’m just wondering how to navigate this situation.

I’m going to write my main thoughts/concerns out in bullet points because there’s a lot of info and I want to be as succinct as possible. But first, a brief history: I’m in a closed triad. We’ve been together for almost a year. We currently all live together and I own the house. My partners are...

Thank you so much for responding. I'll tell you the same thing I told GalaGirl... As far as moving in together so soon: I thought these were extraordinary circumstances because we had all been such good friends for so many years. This wasn't like finding a married couple on Tinder and becoming...

Thank you so so much for your incredibly thoughtful and thorough reply. All of this is really helpful, and I have a lot to think about. As for moving in together so soon... I definitely agree. I thought this was a special circumstance because we had all been such emotionally close friends...

Help. I'm at a loss. I've been in a triad with a married couple for several months. Up until a few weeks ago, everything has been absolutely wonderful. Compersion everywhere. One of my partners (A) has expressed some insecurities lately, and believes that her spouse (B) loves me more. (To be...