Recent content by Acakes

Update: It has been so long since I’ve been on here. I have been focusing on myself and my mental health. I am finally able to be honest and open with the people I truly care about. I have been reading all the literature suggested by this amazing group and have met some wonderful polyamorous...

Yes! ktd even posted a link if you scroll up. I used to see a therapist that specialized in non monogamy before I even knew I was poly. We just really clicked but when I changed jobs she didn’t take my new insurance. The person I’ve been seeing for the last 6 months knows very little about poly...

I have an appt with a poly therapist on MONDAY!!! I cannot wait to share how to goes!

If you don’t mind me asking, are you and your wife still together?

Well I will need a year or two to devour everyone’s reading list! 🤣 I am constantly reading articles. Anything I can find through google searches so thank you for narrowing things down for me! I read The Ethical Slut. Dossie is my idol. I found a short little read on Audible called Nonmonagamy...

Thank you so much!!!

I’m not hopeful that he will change his mind. He is still healing from the affair. We talked about building trust and revisiting a conversation about boundaries when that day comes. I’m not holding my breath. In the meantime, I’m trying to find a new individual therapist that specializes in...

I just want you all to know how much it means that you replied. I am having a hard time opening up to friends and family about my sexuality. I’m not a prude, by any means, but I feel fragile right now. Thank you for listening. My partner actually suggested making friends in the poly community to...

Female, married. Struggling with my identity. A little over a year ago I started developing or noticing I had feelings for a friend. After many conversations with my therapist I asked my partner to open our marriage of ten years. While my partner is accepting of alternative lifestyles, that is...