Recent content by adamkahn

Thanks Galagirl. We actually did have conversations about the spirit of the agreement. For instance I do not think it was fair for her to tell her date that our agreement required her to be cover "before the sun was up" when we had agreed to "no sleepovers". She did mess up and even stay past...

Thank you Kevin, yes we're definitely working it out. Honestly, I felt a little insane and its nice to have my perspective validated. " If she is no longer willing to adhere to the four simple rules that she agreed on, then she needs to tell you so. Immediately." You're right. We both realize...

Thanks for the thoughtful responses and questions Galagirl and Inaiel. This actually resolved much faster than I thought it would. She said she did not need to wait till Friday. She has clarity after sleeping on it and wants to pause seeing other men for now and focus on us. I again made it...

Thanks for the thoughtful response Galagirl. I have in fact asked her to decide if she's willing to pause on other people to prioritize us or be done (in our case this means a divorce). I've made it clear that I need space and stability to rebuild and am not looking to make her stop seeing...

Hi Friends, I need some advice and perspective. My partner and I have been together for nearly 6 years now. We've been non-monogamous from the start and started identifying as poly relatively early. Not because of any preference on my part, my partner (a woman) was dating women exclusively...