Recent content by AddyWants

As an update. We have actually decided to break up. He agreed the behaviour was coercive, unacceptable and thinks he needs time alone. He’s questioning his feelings for me and that would make sense, it’s probably why I felt so betrayed in some way. I’m shocked but also think it’s for the best...

Yeah I agree completely. The more I think about it and assess my feelings I think it’s brought up more general things that we need to discuss now anyway. I certainly won’t go hard on him or make him feel awful about this though. I will see him tonight so fingers crossed it goes well. Thanks for...

Hey! Thanks for your reply. Yes I completely agree. I think because Ive felt hurt I am putting all of his behaviour under a microscope and overall I just wanted more from him. I wish he was turned off by my reservations (as I would be with him). for me, if my partner doesn’t seem invested or...

To answer your previous question we don’t live together. But it was in my bed yes. I’m currently sitting on my couch with a beer dreading visiting it again. Dramatic lol :). Thank you so much. This past year has been so amazing and I can’t wait to learn more about myself. I feel so good...

Truthfully this is the type of response I was looking for. I don’t want to be upset about this. Unfortunately I am. I think the main issue for me is that when we do group things it usually very equal. I don’t always have to be physically involved, sometimes I enjoy watching. But I’m involved in...

Hello everyone. I am quite new here. I’m looking for some help, advice or support from people who understand my circumstances. It’s hard to talk to people about polyamory and ENM without being judged! I have been polyamorous for a year now with my current partner, it has been amazing. Not...