Recent content by AJM

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    Lost trust and how to get it back

    Trust me, you did the right thing.
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    My story. What do you think? Help needed.

    Holt shit, stop nagging your partner to leave their spose.
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    Manipulation or just newbie mistakes?

    This standard playbook crap guys do makes me ashamed to be a man. I know why he used it, it's doubly hard for a married guy to honestly/openly find a GF, but just because somethings hard doesn't mean you cut corners.
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    What to do when my partners other partner hates me.

    GalaGirl giving more great advice. My $.02 is that Apple is a dishonest manipulator. She played both you AND Banana. Shame on her. She gives poly a bad name.
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    From Triad to V

    OP: awesome job on being vegan! May I ask the gender and orientation of you and your partner?
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    My boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend of nine years

    Don't fall into that trap. The love between you and your BF won't be the same as the love between him and anyone else or you and anyone else. Trying to compare it isn't fair to anyone. Instead, focus on what you share and nurturing it. He's losing someone that has been in his life a long...
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    How do you know if it's right?

    You have to negotiate for what you want. If you don't get more time you may need to make some hard choices
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    Things are never what you expect them to be, right?

    My advice to Oubliett is to roll with it, enjoy it and see where it leads. Love is a wonderful thing@
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    I think I want to open my relationship - but is for the right reasons?

    You need to let go of your posessive and jealous tendencies if you want to open your relationship.
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    My boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend of nine years

    Clair2, can you elaborate on exactly what you're insecure about?
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    Worth fighting for

    If you are queer you should divorce the man and be with your GF. Salon is not dating because he's holding out waiting for more physical intimacy than you can give him. Your partners don't get along: just one more reason to break the V
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    Emotional Processing, Choosing Your Timing and Checking in With Partners

    OP, are you living with M? If so there might be a need for more communication or check-ins. If not, I don't know why M needs prior notice on dates, especially if M doesn't have veto power.
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    Happy

    Just say that you're seeing some guy casually. Are you out as bi? If so you can also day you met a woman you like. Use first names only. Be vague when they ask too many questions that could result in a google search. My GF's adult daughters never knew my last name or that I was married. I mrt a...
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    Help. My metamour scares me.

    Welcome to life. I work in Corporate IT and get this on a weekly basis.
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    Helping Partner though breakups

    You can think you are over the grief but then BAM! Something brings it all back to the surface. Please be patient and supportive.
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