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    Newbie advice please!

    Hi Karen, Yes you are right. He doesn't do well with communication or anything. It's something we've been working on our whole relationship but it seems to have gotten worse due to this issue. I did talk to him about being poly and everything before we did anything but he doesn't seem to have...
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    Newbie advice please!

    Hi Galagirl, Thank you for your response. The message was posted much later than the actual event. We were just sort of ignoring it for about a month, then the topic came up and is something that hasn't really gone away since. Yes, basically we are expected to just forget and bury all of our...
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    Newbie advice please!

    To be honest, a bit upset. I get he has now realised he doesn't like it, but to expect me to change immediately is just unfeasible. He thinks I'm being selfish; I think he is a little bit too. As much as he thinks he is being understanding, he is not and I'm struggling to explain it to him...
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    Newbie advice please!

    We all wanted to do it but the game was a way of making it a bit easier to bring into conversation. It really does bring your emotions in, but unfortunately this seems to be something BF doesn't understand. We had a conversation today where he focused only on what he wants, which is for it to...
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    Newbie advice please!

    Thank you for your responses, and the links. Just to clarify, it was my boyfriend's idea to start with his best friend. I guess I naively thought that it would be better for them to be friends as they would get along. We will have to wait to talk a bit more, but one of the things that my...
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    Newbie advice please!

    Hi there, I am polyamorous but am now exploring this more and am looking for some advice. I (F) am in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend. We live together. Recently we started opening up our relationship with his best friend (M). We agreed on rules that we stuck to. Me and the best...
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