Thank you everyone for the responses. You all really help give me some insight.
Let me clarify one thing. Group sex is something I have an interest in too. We're both sub, we've both expressed an interest in playing out some fantasies together.
But maybe, as some of you have suggested. This...
So it has (apparently) been 8 months since I posted this discussion about my difficulty with being primarily mono with a partner who is poly (but only sexually).
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=83359
if you wanted it
To catch up, two girls, 21 and 30 (a sadly immature 30 year...
Thank you all so much for the responses. I read them all...twice...but didnt respond because ive been too jumbled in the head and embarrassed about all this that I didnt want to respond.
I feel like this issue is getting worse. She is totally faithful to me but shes definitely changing who she...
I would like to consider myself a pretty open minded girl. I think that the jealousy and possessiveness that we (as a society) idealize as being romantic is pretty sick. Owning a partner is not romantic, its unhealthy and destructive. People are more complicated than that (at least generally)...