Recent content by alwaysready1970

You're one debbie downer!! Also, who said my wife will not even talk about the possibility?? We talk about it all the time, she's not ready at the moment, and may never be ready, but maybe she will. Just last night, during awesome sex, we talked about a beautiful blonde joining us for a night of...

I'm not saying I want to start with a 3sum/4sum, just saying I would enjoy that, to me sexual exploration and being poly are two different things. I already have a few really close friends, who are also very close friends with my wife. It would be great to go to dinner, maybe a vacation...

Well the reason for 3sum/4sum is for the pure physical sexual enjoyment. I don't want to cheat (have an affair) that does not appeal to me. Its the thrill of the 3 or 4 of us together, letting all guards down and enjoying each other fully. I also want to see my wife with another man and enjoy...

Poly for me Thanks for your response, this is all new to me and my wife and I have chatting about my feelings, thoughts and desires. There is no "correct" way forward. All I know is that I have very strong feelings for 2 other women but love my wife very much and have no desire to cheat on her...

My Story You are living in the same place I am. I have opened up to my wife about how I feel and my desires, she didn't shut me down, but never talks about it, that's her way of dealing with everything, pretending its not there and maybe it will go away, but this is not going away. I would...

Thanks, I'm sure there will be a few on here that will be hard to get along with, like all forums. I'm hoping that most are open, honest and accepting of others opinions. There is no 'right' way to be poly, it can mean so many things to so many people. For me, the ultimate would be 3 or 4 people...

Question Care to explain what you mean by: I think you'll find polyamory is not what you think it is.

Hey there, just found this forum and registered. Looking forward to reading and learning and chatting with like minded folks. I'm 50, married to a great gal for 20+ years, life is good. Dream of having a 3rd or more join us for the long term, just need to get my wife onboard. Monogamy is not for...