Recent content by Ambermw522

Thank you.

Susies husband was all for the 3 of us to get together, his wifes feelings were strong towards us and he says enjoys seeing her happy. He just wants everyone happy, but i do worry about his own happiness as he is our friend and i agree i worry or future resentment on his part.

The truth is I wasn't ready when I thought I was I didn't full grasp everything. I had a hand in this too. He claims poly since he was 16 but failed to tell me for selfish reasons that's something we are working on. When the relationship presented itself we jumped in unprepared especially me...

I know it wasnt an accident either, it was a choice they both made. Shitty one but they did.

I understand how it may seem that way or look that way but i truly believe that it was not planned at all, he was leaving a relationship for her for me, and she was leaving it for me as well due to them seeing me hurt over the jealousy and not being ready, obviously they were both emotionally...

Yes, John is fully aware he actually encourages it. But in the process i believe he has started having feelings for me in which im not interested and have voiced it, made things a little weird for me.

Yes Susie is married to my husband life long best friend John. We are all close friends from the start. Yeah i agree, this isnt something that we can jump back in right away. There is alot to work on.

Does that look better? Sorry about that.

Hello All! This is my first post, ive been really having trouble finding a good forum and discussion group. Hope to find helpful advice and not negativity. Basically the story starts....my husband hid being poly-amorous from me basically he was scared i wouldn't have accepted him and he would...