Recent content by ambleew

I am still VERY new to this and always seeking advice on these forums. EVERYONE has been great!! I am in a relationship currently with my husband and girlfriend and it has been a very very rocky road. We did things very quickly but somehow are managing to work through it. A lot of it honestly...

You always have the best advice, seriously! I agree. There have been some happy times. I think my main issues are that I'm struggling with being so new to poly, and having a hard time with the sharing part. Of course, Noah realizes he was not paying attention to me quite as much, which in part...

Penny, I agree and I definitely take my part of the blame. I agreed to her moving in (and it was to help us since I'm not working right now). I am definitely not placing full blame on him or her. There really is no one person to blame. I have to admit that a very small part of me wants it to...

You are all right to be honest. I know I am letting myself get "walked on" if those are the best words. He pretty much has given me no choice and if I say I want to leave he says "Well that's up to you". I thought our marriage was stronger than this. As far as a veto goes, we never really...

Just wanted to send a quick reply to let you all know that we are trying to work on things. My husband refuses to let her go and said if she leaves there will be a huge chip on his shoulder. I stayed at a friend's for a couple of days and came back. I have no idea what the future holds for us...

I'm not really sure where to start. I have posted a couple of times about my situation. I am 31, married, and together my husband Noah (27) and I have a girlfriend, Nicole (24). Noah met her at work, and for a while, things were going... okay. Honestly, though, I think I have had more bad days...

Hi Danny..I read one of your posts and just want to say I think it's great you are in a happy triad! I am new to polyamory and also in a triad so it's always nice to hear that there are some that work out well.

You guys are so awesome! Thanks!

Nice to meet you as well! Nice to know there are more that share our lifestyle so close!

Thank you for your response...I will definitely try to keep it under control. I have skimmed the jealousy threads but will look into them more in depth. Thanks again!

Hi All! I have posted here a couple of times about being new to Polyamory and I have received such warm welcomes and great responses. But I am having issues and possibly doubts...what do you suggest?? My husband deeply cares for our gf and I do as well. She has also expressed her strong...

Redpepper, thanks so much! I love reading your responses on the boards. I don't get on here much, but I should change that, because it really helps me, being so new! My husband, our gf and I all had a very serious talk the other night. She expressed her fears of never being able to marry my...

Trying again, and other feelings Hey guys. It's been awhile! First of all, I want to thank you ALL for your advice and input! It really helped. We decided to slow things down. Actually, a couple of days after my post, she decided to move back with her ex husband out of town. It hurt...

Thanks a bunch for your input! I agree things are progressing pretty quickly. I'm sure she has alternative options regarding living situations. I definitely don't want the relationship to crash and burn, so if that means taking it much slower, then so be it. :) Thanks for the insight. I am...

Please bear with me on this one, as it is long. I am very new to polyamory, so I would love to hear any input/comments/suggestions/etc. I'm just kind of venting and stating how I feel, since I only have a couple of friends that know about my lifestyle so far. I am married to a wonderful man...