Recent content by Amethystsparrow

How long until it can be called emotional cheating I get the impression that things are going to be hard for me after this. however things are not changing, she still texts him, they both still say they love each other and ask for pictures and sending pictures. I've told them to stop but they...

Gala girl: Very valid points in each regard. I am now emotionally and mentally strong enough to put my foot down with her, and I have been vocal to him about how unfair, cruel and blind he has been. I am standing up for myself and this seems to show him that I am not someone who will sit here...

Update and in need of more advice Hello everyone, I value every one of you greatly and I hope all are well. Things got ugly, however they are progressing in the right direction slowly. A lot of negative things were said about me in which I feel wronged, I wish I could recap on all of them to...

Everyone thank you, I'm feeling a little better today, as i have friends who are in town to be with me during this time. I have also kept things from you, which I must share in order to show the bigger picture of why this poly needs to end, even though my health and unhappiness should be more...

I am planning on it, my husband is away at work and Sunshine is also. I expect the meeting to be awkward and I am uneasy about it, but I have to stick to my guns and if necessary will have my therapist write up documents to explain the problems and ailments this whole endeavor has given me. If...

Hi everyone, In the beginning you all were insightful about my attempted triad relations with Sunshine, and you still are and I am seeking your help again, maybe for the last time or leading up to the ending. I have been an emotional wreck. Sunshine and Snarky have had big arguments, arguments...

Hi everyone, I hope everyone is doing well, as for me I'm a bit restless and trying to find out why. Coming here helps and being in such a receptive community definitely sounds like a great place to start, even if it's a tiny vent. I can't place why I'm feeling so restless and unnerved...

Hello everyone, Truthfully I've never really fancied writing a blog before, but considering the newness of this journey we are taking I can't find a better reason than this to start one. I'm AmethystSparrow, a 31 year old creative woman who is easily considered to be docile, laid back, quiet...

FF and Mr.Pants, I am so sorry and feel greatly for nuke's situation. I had a very emotionally and oppressive step mother growing up, and I know how difficult it is in the beginning to cut them out. Moving out was the best thing that ever happened to me and was the only way to cut her out. At...

Oh my, very proud of your daughter for being strong and being able to be such an open minded lovely young lady. I hope for my little one, and the future ones to come to also have that healthy mindset as they get older. We also agree that the severe stigma the LGBT community receives, carries...

That is wonderful! I'm so happy for your children :D For us my husband is a double major in Biology and Environmental science, and Sunshine is a Desert Biologist where as I am at home to cook, tend the house and take our daughter out to explore and play. I also do arts and crafts like painting...

I am worried about the CPS for the drama/bully factor too. however we are a well kept, loving and very about the welfare of my daughter before anything else. I'm sorry your MIL did that, and like your husband mine is planning on standing up for us, albeit painfully for him, but he is ensuring we...

Thank you for your input, everyone thank you. I am sorry that everyone here at some point had to suffer from this same alarming problem in one fashion or another, but it is comforting that it worked out. Frankly the more I hear about the conversation/argument that was had on our 'coming out' to...

Calmer but drained Thank you to everyone who replied in our immediate need. Honestly I've been assured that my daughter will not be taken from me, however I am still going to proceed in visiting a poly friendly attorney to make doubly sure, and to know what my rights are so I can better arm...

I swear, this is getting out of hand. My mother called me today to warm me about a mass message sent from Snarky's parents about an 'intervention' and a threat to take my daughter away from me and place her with my step mother ( who was my psychological and emotional abuser throughout my young...