Recent content by AngelDuncan

I’ve only been on the forum for a few weeks but I’d like to throw a question open to the floor: how many partners at one frame of time is too many? It seems only reasonable that, at some point, a human would only be able to spread their time/attention/physical presence so far before before...

Thanks for responding: This is a part of my new relationship that is making me want to learn more BEFORE it becomes an issue: Currently, I am not feeling "neglected " per se, but I can do math, and once there were, say, more than 4 other POSSIBLE partners in a longer-term, how will it NOT be...

Hello All, happy Wednesday Not sure if this is a “new thread” but wanted to type out my questions and answer a few: Firstly, I appreciate the kind thoughts of condolence about Duncan. It’s been 9 years since he passed, and I took my time to process that for 7 before even considered seeing...

To address the email Lisa got is not connected to my personal accounts and is only one of the business accounts, so no info of my residence etc. I have brothers in cyber security who set that up for me years ago. She’s never contacted me through it either. Just fyi. Duncan and I were together...

Thanks for saying hi and your kind words. So far as my kids, I’ve been their sole caregiver, but nurtured them to have access and relationships with the dads. I also did not bring men I dated into their lives otherwise, as I didn’t think it fair to set them up to become attached to people who...

Thanks for the query: Lisa seems to favor a more kitchen style, as I understand it, in that she wants to know the partners of the men she has relationships with. In theory, I can empathize with that feeling. However, my concern, so far as she in particular is twofold. (Questions about other...

I am new here, so I can only share the “rules” that worked with my long-term partner of 30 years. (He passed in 2017.) We both had other relationships over that time. All I can say is that these worked for us, also noting we were more “parallel poly,” as it was called in my day: Never ask a...

My name is Angel, I’m 56 and live in the US southeast. A little about my story: I’ve pretty much been poly since college. I decided to start dating a man named Duncan who was openly poly, and was up front about it from the start. He was 6 years my senior, in the military and also had a NP...