Recent content by appleseed123

Thank you - your comments are helpful. I love both of them, and yes I've had non-platonic conversations with with her. I agree I should not just "float along" - question is how do I get from floating to something else? maybe "feet on the ground". I think it needs to start with her and not my...

No she doesn't know. In theory I could have the conversation with her but I don't want to loose her.

Not really sure where to start but I guess I'll give an overview of my current situation. I'm 36 married for 10 years (wife is 34), but we've been together since just after high school. My wife and I have 3 kids. I never considered myself Poly and didn't even know that word existed until this...