Recent content by Aquarius

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    Mixed feelings...

    IVs relationships do nothing to diminish our connection, in fact I would say it has the opposite effect. When she is with me she embraces fully the kind of relationship I have to offer her. She has other relationships which are similar in some ways and different in others, which serves to give...
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    Mixed feelings...

    Yep you are right. I need to be more positive. And yes no one can predict the future. There are no guarantees . I guess after such a great weekend I got a bit melancholy. It will be fine if we both work and want it to. How did your husband cope trix and how long has it been?
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    Mixed feelings...

    I don't know
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    Mixed feelings...

    It's 2.44am. Just had the best sex with My husband. It's funny how our sex life just keeps getting better. Even after he told me he was poly. It's been 10 months now I understand that this is a path he needs to follow. I also knows he loves me , as I love him . I'm still scared (those nasty...
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    Hey Fish , How are you? Nothing much to report this end. No news is good news???? Going to that...

    Hey Fish , How are you? Nothing much to report this end. No news is good news???? Going to that poly meeting in Newtown at the end of the month just to see what info I can get and see if there is anyone who is or was in my/ our situation and how they made it work. I really want it to work. Talk...
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    "I love you" and secondaries

    Agreed say what you feel. What comfort would you get anyway if it was forced and not from the heart????
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    "I love you" and secondaries

    Similarly, it takes like 1.6 seconds to say. Maybe you think it's overused, maybe you don't want to say it just to say it... but if there's someone in your life who will appreciate it, why make a big stink about it? It costs you virtually nothing and can bring a smile to someone's face. So if...
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    "I love you" and secondaries

    Feel it? Then say it. Wow not sure how I love you can be over used. I know that it def can be 'under' used. I say love you to my boys, my hubby my friends often. If I feel it I'll say it. I agree actions are important too. Without the actions the words are pointless. But without the...
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    Hi I'm new

    Let me introduce myself. I'm Aquarius. I have been married to breathe deep for 15 years and for the most part it has been amazing. We laugh, we still love and have amazing talks that go on all night.we still catch each others glance across the room and smile and kiss if we pass in the hall...
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    It's not easy Fish. We have 3 boys and wasn't quite expecting all this. Sometimes I get angry...

    It's not easy Fish. We have 3 boys and wasn't quite expecting all this. Sometimes I get angry and hate everything. Other times its easier to accept. Don't know how I will be that first time he goes on a date.Still don't know where I fit in. Always considered myself mono. But maybe I'm wrong. Not...
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    Hi from Michigan

    Not quite there yet So envious fish and dust! I haven't quite reached that corner yet. But I trust my SO( breathe deeply) in that he will communicate and be gentle in my down times. Still one day at a time..... How far is that corner??????????
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    Hi Fish, prob doing on as nothing has happened yet its still all in theory. Who knows what I' ll...

    Hi Fish, prob doing on as nothing has happened yet its still all in theory. Who knows what I' ll be like in practise! One day at a time. Tell me about your situation.
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    Hi from Michigan

    Yep. Just breathe... That's my motto! How long has this been for you? My hubby told me March last year. We are taking it slow and we are going to a poly meeting together end of this month to speak to people and maybe make new friends. I try not to dwell on negatives. Sometimes I feel like just...
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    Hi from Michigan

    Me too Hi Dust, I'm having all your feelings too Dust. My husband told me he is poly and it's hard some days and easier others. I too mourn the fact I was special to him and his 'great" love. Not sure where I am right now but I'm trying. So I feel you. We r just a bit far( I'm in Australia) or...
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