Recent content by arthurv

After re-reading my post and your answers, something occurred to me. It’s true that it feels more honest to talk to Blue first, so I think I will do that. However, I also want closure with Red. I realize that even if Blue is not okay with the situation, I can still explain the situation to Red...

Hi everyone! I’ve joined this forum because I feel at a crossroads in my life and need advice on my situation. I am 39M and have been in a mono relationship with Blue (35F) for 10 years now. We share an apartment and are still very much in love. Before our relationship started, I was...