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Thanks everyone! I already know his hang ups as we have discussed this previously- it's all penis and sex related. Oh his penis might be bigger, or thicker or he might last longer, etc. I told him - that's like me saying - oh you can't date other women because their boobs might be bigger or...

Hello, Everyone! Happy Monday! Hope everyone's day is going well thus far. SO I do have a question that you awesome and lovely people might have an answer to. Has anyone experienced being able to date one sex but not the other? I'm sure the forum is probably full of these type of situations but...

I'm lost too, FullofLove...LOL. This was her 1st same sex relationship. Moving right along :)

She said she did some processing over the weekend and came to that conclusion.

' LOL, Magdlyn-- exactly! She just told me like 2 weeks ago she wanted us to be long term. The night before yesterday she missed me, and then yesterday-- she's not into me sexually. I'm confused and angry as shit. You just wasted four months of my life -- for what?

She swears she's into women, but doesn't have sexual chemistry with me, despite us almost having sex. Yeah, this came out of left field and threw me for a loop.

Jokes on me So, just to update everyone (not that anyone really cares, LOL), but yesterday, after 4 months, she told me she was not sexually attracted to me and wanted to be friends. Explained a lot, though. Sucks that I was emotionally invested in this relationship, only to find out she only...

She's nervous due to our strong feelings for each other. She doesn't want to mess anything up, which I can understand. She's worth the wait, of course. I was simply posting to gauge whether or not I was being unreasonable.

I believe it is a healthy compromise. There's nothing wrong with her sex drive (it's quite high) or orientation. She says she's just nervous due to the strong feelings we have for one another.

Soon enough is within 2 months. I'm letting her make the 1st move. I'm totally fine with that.

LOL, we agreed on a compromise. So it'll happen soon enough

Problem solved! Thank you to everyone who took the time out to respond to this post. It truly helped.

So... we didn't get to talk this weekend. She bought her little girl with her to visit and we didn't have the privacy or time to chat about this. Now this conversation will happen over the phone this week.

No, she is not, and especially not with my hubby, since he's not here in the States at the moment.

Thanks everyone for responding. You guys have helped alot. Today's the day I talk to her - I'll keep ya'll posted.