Recent content by avena333

"Wired to fail." Wow, that rings true to me. I'm finding that as I move through the world with my eyes open, which is how it feels now that I know I'm poly, I am seeing clearly all the myriad ways we are programmed to fail. All the songs, movies, books, news, and other media inundate us...

Hearing you talk makes me smile. I have a friend who is mtf, and she also gives me that sense of gleeful absurdity that I read in your post. I love it! I'm so glad that you are reveling in who you are.

Its been hard for me to identify with yet another label, but maybe I don't need to focus on that. I am enchanted with your name. Can't wait to find out more about you.

Hey River, I can identify with the feeling of having too many closets! I need to get a t-shirt that says Everything I Want to Do is Illegal. Well, maybe not illegal, but certainly Frowned Upon. Deep within me there is something that has always striven to be normal. I want to fit, I'm not...

Thank you so much for this link. I found his blog right after I posted here for the first time, and I went to his site and read voraciously for hours. Steve sees things the way I do. I can identify with the way he approaches the world, and reading the way he approaches polyamory has helped me...

My husband, his girlfriend, and I have started a blog together. I think it was genius of Hubby to suggest it because it gives us a view to the others' inner thoughts that is priceless. here it is: www.polyindiana.wordpress.com It has also been a good way to air emotions with less chance of...

In answer to your questions: I haven't identified as polyamorous until recently. ("Venturing out into unknown territories" meant dealing with the energy of Spirit, with creativity, with madness, not exploring sexual relationships. Sorry for the confusion.) It is upon looking back at my life...

It is funny to write that I am new to polyamory, since I have been practicing it in various forms since childhood. What is new to me, however, is my husband's interest in having other relationships. We have been married for 10 years and he has always been my rock. Where I am emotional and...