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    Bad triangle. Advice, experiences?

    Thanks everyone for your posts, I will reply specifically in a few days since I'm going to have busy days now. I should have come here way earlier. A lot of wisdom in your words. Your experience is priceless. Thanks
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    Bad triangle. Advice, experiences?

    Glad to hear some supportive voices :) BrigidsDaughter You have that awesome skill that I always lacked: explaining my 1000 words in your 10 words ;) Thank you for your understanding. Probably. I just did not expect that someone could jump the gun, in human terms. It was a WTF. I'm open to...
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    Bad triangle. Advice, experiences?

    Good point. Unfortunately we are talking about common sense and non-written rules, since he decided to dive into another relationship without us having the rules set. And the common sense rule to me is - when your girlfriend needs reassurance and feels insecure, you do as much as you can to...
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    Bad triangle. Advice, experiences?

    Thank you, Magdlyn, for your post. I like your point of view :) Yes, it's the first time in my life I am jealous, quite late I think as for my 29. Just to clear things out, their relationship is rather about love, not about sex. And to be honest, their casual sex wouldn't bother me that much...
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    Bad triangle. Advice, experiences?

    8996588 17 My rule is "everything is OK with everyone's consent". Of course she's not the one to blame. I've spoken to her and told her so, too. I am angry with my boyfriend, he's the one unfair to me. It's exactly the way you say. I do know very well that her disappearance would not change...
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    Bad triangle. Advice, experiences?

    Hi. My rule is "everything is OK with everyone's consent". There must be consent, reassurance and an understanding, loving atmosphere, from that point everything is possible. I stated openly I am not happy with that at that moment, he proceeded anyway. Would anyone feel loved and safe if...
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    Bad triangle. Advice, experiences?

    Hi, When I met my boyfriend we were really united by the idea of an open relationship. We do have high libidos, he really likes company of women, I really enjoy company of men. Finally someone to whom I could connect, finally someone intelligent, finally someone with whom I could experience...
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