Recent content by Aztech

Thank you again I was quite upset and then angry, I was upset because she wanted to change and angry that through all of this she wanted me to accept her for who she is which I did. I'm okay now guys I've let it all leave my system, I was ready to give up on dating but I'm not going to let one...

Hi guys, I told her I wasn't comfortable with changing my appearance and well she got a bit mad at me and then after said she was only joking and that she has a dark sense of humour. She doesn't want to see me anymore even though I haven't done anything to cause that other than speak the truth...

I'm open to dating someone poly but I don't think it's going to be her Just finished my second date which went much better than the first however something she's asked at the end not only made me uncomfortable but hurt me too. I've accepted her for who she is and yet she expecting my to...

A quick update Hi all, I just thought I'd post a quick update. I have a second date tomorrow, I'm excited (of course). I'm also going to start seeing a wellbeing counsellor to help with other issues in my life. I'd like to thank you all again and I'll stay on here so I can ask for advice if I...

I do find it hard to express myself, when people don't know everything. I'm an open person most of the time but they are a few things I keep to myself until I feel comfortable talking about it. I thought it would make things easier to open up more about myself. Many of my worries have...

Thank you everyone Thank you everyone for replying, I have to give this a lot of thought. No matter how much I like her, or how much I'll start to like her while I get to know her, I do need to think about myself and my needs. Going on dates and getting to know her at this point is great and...

Thank you, I have had trouble just saying what I want. I've never been in this type of relationship before or attempted dating someone who is poly. In fact I'd never heard off it until she told me, I'm not really sure what the difference is in monogamous and monoamorous. I guess I've never...

Hiya it was her who said I'd be primary, she is really only just exploring it all herself. She explained it to me and I'm somewhat comfortable with what she needs/wants, she wants a relationship and to settle down as I do. However, she wants/needs to date others or at least feel free to do so...

Hiya I am weird lol I'm not very experienced when it comes to dating. This is true I need to slow down. I just get very excited when meeting new people, I don't know why I've just always gotten attached to people quickly it's just who I am. I am trying to slow down and just go with flow, and...

Thank you, I have been giving it a lot of thought. We have things in common, and we seem compatable as two people. I am just feeling overwhelmed, at the moment. When I think about her most of the time I only think about dating her and the things we can do together i.e watch movies together...

That's the plan or at least I hope so, I want to have fun and just get to know her for who she is. I'm not going to lie I had never heard of polyamory until I got talking to her well she didn't tell me until a couple of days before our date and boom I had a brain explosion. I wasn't sure how to...

Hiya I thought I was ok about this. So a little information. I had a date with someone who I think is amazing and it's very early days. I'm monogamous and she told be about her being polyamorous, she was going to wait until the day of our date but thought it was best to tell me before. She told...

Me too Me too, I'm always working on myself and finding myself so with a good talk I believe I can get over if not remove these feelings of insecurity. I think this will be good for me and I'm an open person. Time will tell, it's only been one date but she has said she likes me and would like...

I still have worries but it's a bit personal Thank, I still have worries but it's on a personal level so it's best to talk to her about it but let's just say it's feelings of inadequacy (I'm not very experienced) she's the fifth person I've dated but that's a whole different thing. Again I'll...

I feel better about everything now Hiya, I would like to thank those who have read my thread. The date went well and I understand better, well what it is that she wants better. Talking to her has helped, not only reassure me but I now understand her needs. I also feel I understand everything...