Recent content by Bakon

Well. This is a thing. Told the girls one of my brothers was going to be in town on Thursday for his work. Asked if they wanted to meet him with me. Now they're freaking out. Like a lot. I get wanting to make a good impression, but this seems a little excessive? Hazel is practically having a...

Word to the wise: if you see something a little hinky going on with someone, talking to them about it is a good idea. Get a better picture of the situation, maybe give some advice, show you care a little and all of that. If the person happens to be a college student though, please F O R T H E L...

I am alive! It has been incredibly busy in my life recently. Quite a few changes, not all of them positive unfortunately. Add in projects for classes and, well, any time spent on the internet is time that I should be catching up on my daily recommended three hours of sleep. Anyway, Khloe...

I'll admit, I'm panicking just a bit as this is my first time having a girlfriend on Valentines and there's not a lot out there for three people. I'm not sure? I wouldn't be offended if they didn't get me anything but I don't want to hurt their feelings. I wish I had thought about it and asked...

Suddenly pressing question: what does Valentines look like? Flowers? Candy? ...jewelry? I forgot it was on the way!

Yeah, that was the problem. I honestly haven't ever cared about privacy or embarrassment, but turns out I have some lines. Weirdly, I'm fine with the idea of talking about me, but describing Hazel or Khloe seems weird and gives me anxiety.

As a note: starting a fairly complicated relationship  juuuust as senior projects start coming due and an internship needs to be found is definitely a decision that one can make. I don't regret it, but college is certainly trying to make me regret it. Also, has anyone else let someone know what...

So, Hazel and I went out on our first individual date! There's a place near us with a bunch of rock walls and a central boulder to climb. I think hazel was nervous at first making her talk very quickly, but she relaxed pretty quick when she started climbing. I must admit, belaying does have a...

Alright, date went well, mostly a lot of talking and wandering around in a butterfly garden near campus. (I love that place. If you like peaceful areas with decent walks, try a butterfly garden.) We ended up working out a few different things, both in terms of what we were cool with in terms of...

It's been a good weekend

Well, headed back to campus. Wish me luck, I'm deadly nervous.

I don't think I've ever had someone say I write like a romance novel. Edit: Honestly, I feel a little flattered.

Quite a while-I didn't ask specifics but at least since last spring semester. I feel that there has to be some kind of joke possible about being a male unicorn. More seriously, I have run across the term in Mt research. It's something to think about, but I feel that if you are in a...

Note: all commentary and advice can be considered solicited in this thread. If I wasn't willing to talk about it, I wouldn't post it. So, some of you may recognize me from Reddit recently. Going to retell the story with a little more detail since I'm less concerned about bot scraping on here...

Oh. Oooooh. No, that's not-it's not what it sounds like. Long story short, I got invited to an already established relationship. Yes, I am aware that I have issues with communication and getting thoughts out of my head, verbally or written. I tend to be massively self-contained.