Recent content by Barnowl

You all have been awesome. Thank you so much. The kind and the tougher responses are good. Helps me get things in perspective. There was some development over the last few days. I came to the realisation that she proceeded with the "cheating" relationship at a time where she thought i would...

Thank you for you detailed reply. This is really helping. This is hard. She chose to pursue it separate from me, so my ability to demand anything is limited. Considering she lied to me for so long, and considering she did it even though she feared "It would end our marriage" says to me that...

Yeah, you might have me there. Don't know how i could possibly work it with my current lifestyle, but who knows what the future holds. I also feel it would be a disservice / disrespectful to my wife and to someone else if I am doing it to validate my own insecurities, or is that an acceptable...

Hi, My situation feels very long winded as it has been a chaotic and emotional few days, so I'll try to keep it succinct. My wife and I have been married for over 10 years, and like all marriages there have been ups and downs. When we first started, we were the very typical Mono relationship...