Recent content by bearpancakes

She shared all of that with me. I think I’m overreacting tbh and this oversharing could be the cause.

I’m (m) am the mono in my marriage and my wife (f) is Poly and currently seeing a guy who she says is a FWB. He seems nice and all but some things are jumping out. First he identified as a Dom and they are into impact play. My wife is also Dom so there’s a sexual power struggle with them. The...

Great question, I don't know if I've thought about this. Failure for me is our current relationship ending, anything that results in that outcome is off the table (my partner hasn't made being poly an ultimatum by any means). Success would be me figuring out a way to be comfortable and secure in...

Thank you for the perspective, where I think I may have gone wrong is I don't know if I want this relationship arrangement, I'm only doing it at the moment to make my partner happy. I went into this with the thought that I'd get over it as time passes. Am I setting myself up for failure?

I'm married and my wife is poly, I'm not. We only recently opened our marriage up and now she's exploring her options. During this journey we both started out with the expectation that we'd both be dating, but I have no desire to have another partner. Its also been a struggle for me to accept...