Recent content by Beautifullyflawed31

Opposites Madelyn, I wasn't even aware that I would even consider being poly until I met her. My feelings developed very quickly and for a long time I kept them hidden because she was a married woman when I met her, and everything in me screamed how wrong it was to have romantic feelings for...

Not keeping anyone in check I think that you make an excellent point! There are always things you learn about someone you are newly dating. You are committing to marriage after two dates, and I think its a great point to see if you even want to take the relationship even further before...

Diamond in the Rough Will do! I'll look for the diamonds in the rough when I decide to put myself out there and look for someone! Thank you!

Titles/OKCupid Fallen Angelina, This is my first poly relationship and those are just the terms that my girlfriend and husband choose to use. I'm not saying they use that as what they call me. My girlfriend calls me her girlfriend, and her husband calls me by my name. So I am really sure how...

OKCupid Thank you for your suggestions! I really appreciate it!

Mother Load Thank you for your information! It's good know that I have a chance at finding exactly what I want as long as I am upfront and honest about what I want! And I feel the same way you do about hierarchies, but those are the terms that my partner and her husband use, so in order for...

Amazing That is absolutely fantastic to hear! Thank you for the words of encouragement! I love knowing that what I want is actually a possibility!

Hahaha agreed! Well thank you very much for helping me to think that what I truly want might be possible! And I totally agree! I think some guys might just try to date me thinking they might get to check being in a threesome off their bucket list! :)

Like Minded Thank you so much for this post! It is really good to know that I am not the only one out there curious about this topic and wanting to add another part to my already amazing relationship! I, like you, had so many issues to work through when I first started this poly relationship...

Thank you very much for that information! That is very helpful!

Seeking Someone Who WANTS mono, not forcing anyone into it I am not looking to turn someone who is poly into someone who wants to be mono, I would never try to change someone like that. I am simply asking if finding a mono primary partner might be possible. I am just trying to be true to...

Kid Friendly w/ Much Experience I'm actually worried at my age and being poly that I have created a very small pool of possible dating candidates, however I am not saying that I am giving up by any means. I am a teacher, and while I understand that that isn't exactly the same as being a...

My exact worry That is exactly what I am worried about. Since my relationship started from a poly position, I am afraid that I won't be able to find a primary that doesn't want to be poly. Or if it possible, that the chances of finding someone like that is very slim. And as cliché as it...

Not Looking to Box Anyone In I'm not looking to tell anyone what they can or can't do. I feel like everyone is saying they were already in a mono relationship before it become poly. I want to know if it can happen the other way around. Can I seek out a mono relationship while already in a poly...

Thank you for your reply! I have not tried OKCupid since I have been in this poly relationship. I used it a lot when I was single and had both positive and negative experiences with that site! I guess I should give it another try! Do they have a poly option on your profile when you make it?