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Thanks Kevin. I appreciate the suggestion!

I think my angle was coming from a person who is new to the idea of being nonmonoamorous. From thinking and living "mono" to adjusting to nonmono. I don't think I have any specific examples I have to share right now. Looking for general advice, I guess, of adjusting, other than talking with...

So I am completely new to this. Husband and I decided to open our relationship a cpl months ago. I have a "bf" that is a LDR. So I am the hinge in a V. Bf and I see each other every other month or so. Husband and I live together, been together for almost 20 years. How do you balance it...

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Welcome!! I hope you find great stories, support, and advice and keep communicating with your husband.

Just wanted to give virtual hugs.

Wow. Thanks guys!! I am feeling the love and warmth you all are sending!! Thank you! This is such an exciting endeavor for us to explore. Weight has been lifted off our shoulders, too. And I am excited of possibilities for both of us. And you all are really great!

Thanks Al! True story, when I read your intro and posts, I thought maybe you were my husband, shifting things slightly to "disguise" himself. Lol. Your situation and ours seem to be full of similarities. I am happy you found that shift, the compersion. I hope hubby will find his too, soon. Not...

Thanks for the warm welcome. It helps me be put at ease. I will have to look around and find some success stories of people who became poly post indiscretions. We have looked through a few of the suggested books, and they have said that poly being successful post cheating isn't common. Not...

Hi. I'm brand new here. I've been reading here and there, but I'm finally jumping in to the conversations. I know I will need some guidance as we navigate the waters of an open relationship. I have been married for almost 18 years. 2 younger kids. Our foray into an open relationship is pretty...