Recent content by BlueSocks

In response to @Magdlyn So, we live together, not married, but that’s because neither of us believe in marriage. He’s a stepdad to my children. I “know” (I think) he isn’t looking for love or another girlfriend, because he’s been very clear in telling me and other parties that it’s not what he...

Hello I’m BlueSocks. I’m a woman in my late 30s based in the UK. I’ve been on the kink scene on and off for nearly a decade and I’ve navigated that by trying ENM. This account is somewhat anonymous as I’m quite active on my local scene and the downside of that is that it’s actually really...

Thank you everyone for your replies! This really is so helpful. I’m still getting used to this site and I’m not entirely sure how to quote people but I’ll try answer your questions. It’s hard to determine where we are in our ENM. I’ve found it really difficult to come to the Poly community for...

Please can I get some words of wisdom from some of you more experienced poly folks? I’m not new to ENM, but was rather traumatised by an ex using our poly relationship to hurt and control me. I’ve been with my current partner 5 years. We are open and have other kink/sex partners, but don’t date...