Recent content by BohemianMLHR81

One thing that I have found with over 13 years dealing with online dating is that since my tender soft side is usually only reveled in intimate settings I generally come off as a hardass online. That part sucks. Everyone especially men are shocked when they meet me in person because of this. It...

I did indeed pay attention to her handle. I was referring to the mentality similarities of her husband with the typical southern redneck man. I do admit I missed the D/s thing. However that really does not change the fact that the man wants to have sex with homever he chooses when he chooses but...

people are not always truthful with themselves on what they want in their heart. If you tell yourself that you want a particular thing over and over then eventually you will convence yourself that you wanted it all along.

Sounds to me as if D is wanting a mono relationship with his wife but is trying to keep wife happy while C is tired of his role of being referee between husband and wife and needs to be more in a womans life.

Oh horse pucky! Stop making excuses for his selfesh behavior and start screaming for equality! If his treating you as if you did not matter was not bothering you then this post would not be here! And furthermore trust me on this because almost every man in the sothern part of the US uses a...

The mentality displayed by your man is def southern redneck! The whole I can do what I want but NO ONE else will touch what is mine!

Oh just one thing is your bf a southern redneck man? This has the pregnant barefoot smell all over it!

OH HELL NAW! LOL IM AT A LOSS. There are so many things I could say here but.......I respectfully decline!

Oh lawd have mercy. LOL ok to give you a clue as to why some women do notbother responding to every email. I have a profile on adult friend finder for 13 yrs now. My profile has had 47000 views since 9-15-11. I receive at least 10 emails per day. out of the 10 maybe 1 if im lucky read my profile...

One other thing that I noticed in all of your posts was that there was no mention of the closeness between you and the wife. Everything seems to be centered around the husband's sexual desires of wanting his two women, and the wife's jealousy. This leads me to believe that she is only having...

Thank you so much for posting this thread. This is exactly what I was referring to in my post about jealousy and the third being the one who is cast aside. I have seen exactly this situation over and over, in both the poly and the swinging lifestyles over the last 25 years. I feel for you...

Tell him exactly what you are telling us. You want to be intimate with G and you do not want to wait another two weeks. Human nature is not going to allow you to wait two weeks if you are sleeping next to G already.

Well, I hope this helps in your decision. The couple that I was part of a quad with, that relocated to the west coast, went through this exact thing that you are going through now. After they got settled out there, the wife met a woman. Within a few months, this woman moved in with the married...

I know I am most likely going to get some heat over this, but I have to say it. The simple fact is that you are NOT in love with Jules. You have not been for a long time. You are comfortable with him because he is your rock. To keep dragging it on so that you have your emotional support person...

whew! Ok to reply a general response to all the accusations and assumptions. I said that I have been involved in a poly quad, never a triad. The quad was awesome. Full of love, trust, communication, and only ended due to the other couple relocating 3000 miles away for work. My ex husband after...